The Journey called Life

The  confirmation from the pregnancy test after visiting a doctor that evening , April 24th 2011 , was something very different , i had to buy groceries on way  back hme and i did that and called him to say that today iam gonna confirm abt this news ,. i mean all of a sudden there was this feeling that we are jumpin into the next level of life ............surprisingly there was hardly anyone in the hospital tht eve , and i got an appointment with Dr . Sunil Eashwar , This was the first time am answering to all gynic questions asked . kinda funny but ya again the big question mark needs to be answered...............and then , the real test , the urine test for the pregnancy had to be done................the moment from when the nurse took it away from my hands to till she came back , i could feel a heavy pumping in the heart ......and then she comes and then smiles at me and says , it is positive /.........this makes me mad and i wanna jump there but hey , this is a hospital

And then i move inside and get the news from the doc .........this is somethin like , thousand butterflies inside my stomach dancing with joy...........and am all smiles ..........

I sent a message to him sayin , yes we are finally there and he calls me and we both smile ...........these smallest of moments are just somethin which we can treasure for a lifetime..........

Secure Locked place for all waste

Have u ever cleaned your house ?
Kept things in place ?
Threw the papers / watever rubbish
You see people throwing stuff around wherever they feel like
Somebody eats a banana and throws it randomly on the road ....
Do u even bother to know there is a secure locked place in every house for all such wastage to go into called as "Dustbin "
The moment it is named , ppl throw a weird look ....urgh , the smell it is so weird , it makes me sick ....i dont want to throw it , throw wat , even touching it is a sin ......i dont want to go near to that also .....
Just think about those people who come in to collect the wastage from so many households , have u seen them how they handle the waste you throw ??? They touch it with their own hands and if they had a single thought in their mind ,saying....i will never touch it ....think abt wat wud have happened to this whole world .........Try to be clean , first thing  , everybody earns money and can afford to buy dustbin bags to throw all the wastage in a secure place ,.
For god sake , buy a close dustbin to avoid , insect visiting you .....
try to be sensible  enough to close those bage and give it to those people who pick it and throw it ......
The only thing i can say out of this is ....Stop blaming that the streets are dirty , the roads are dirty ....the people around you are even more dirtier.....just get inside your house and clean your house and feel good......this will automatically keep the others clean .....Trust me , this works !

Drop and Rise !

The only thing which is ON every second around this world is  the happiness you see in people faces when there is a "DISCOUNT" posted on a shop glass door . The  moment the % is posted , there is a mental calculation running in a LADIES mind "how can I manage with the extra expense" . " Yes , iam rich I can buy stuff " . " thank god , it is discount time " ,, " When am I getting my salary" , " How am I goin to repay my friend ?" ,……..

The same thing across MEN's minds " Why  , now ?? " ,  " The money kept for somethin is gone now in a second " , " No , don’t see there  :) " , " OK , somethin small atleast and not the whole shop "

Have u ever wondered how the malls really put the extra charge on the goodies and pass it to customers who open their mouths and come shop . I see some people who just buy stuff with no second thoughts , just barge in and get that and out .

They identify people who really crave for them and post in hefty amount of money for the goodies which everyone is willing to pay .

But , do u really care to just come out of the shop and see the way the papers are thrown out. The drop in discounts is ALWAYS a rise in the rubbish thrown by the same people who go inside to pay hefty amounts  for the smallest of things .

Know to value some things  , the weird looks throws by people when they are out of the shop and they see the heap of dust and paper thrown is ridiculous , it is U who is helping the dirt to accumulate and U move away as it if no good thing .

Why don’t you pay money for some service to get the garbage cleaned ??? 

Little ray of hope

Have u ever had a thought when :

• you waste food in plate
• Throw papers around the place
• Buy so much of vegetables and waste it on plate 
• The plastic bottles you throw once you empty the beverages.....am not talkin abt hot drinks here , guys wake up ......
• Throwing a pen which is lying in same place

THe answer would be diplomatic.....Yes ,  i think when  i do it but i still do it ! THe answer here is NO ......
If you are someone who really knws the value of smallest of materials , u wud not say NO :)
Trust me , this comes to my mind because of one small thing......I have to mve in early morning to office by bus , and iam so into the feeling tht i have insufficient time for everything  , i think everyone feels the same ........i walk past the roads to the bus stop , and there i see , 2 small boys , almost like 6-7 years , with a little hope in their eyes  ....and a bag in their hands and the happiness when they spot a plastic bottle on road /  paper / any plastic ...../ any materialistic thing which WE all throw away and dirty the place we live in .......
The feel good factor they had when they spot somethin on road was tremendous......the energy they shared was like " thank god , we have breakfast today " ......
the unused book /pen  thrown out made their day ......
this was somethin which really come into my senses.....I think i missed out so much in life , getting everything i wanted from my parents , wat not , they almost treated me like a princess........never felt for the emptiness in one materialistic substance.......
I atleast made up my mind from the day i saw those boys .......Watever it is ,......make use of it sensibly .....u want to throw something - check if that is been used to the maximum......try not to waste food ....but if u are having smethin , then knw the quantity of food .......
Thanks to those boys who taught me the happiness i need to get with all the materialistic things in life and not only for money :)

Social networking madness

The happiness in receiving a letter , opening the letter which still has the gum smell to it , the feeling of the ink on the paper , the way the other person stressed to write the letter  , trying to remmeber the address to send the letter , what a lovely feeling it is …..i knw , this is after all paper and pen which makes the job , but have u ever realised how the stupid keyboard and the social networkin sites have ovbsershadowed the writers from being useless lazy beings ……………

This is one thing I notice in this generation people / be it anyone , take my father as well …….

The first thing u ask any weirdo [ or anyone u meet I emant ] is "U on FB ? "

Now , u shud be thinkin wat the hell is FB now ????? nothin greta , Facebook is the one they are talking  about .

FB has made people so addictive that it just helps people connect to different people  , why ???

• Play games [ such a crap game it is , wonder how people can stand  playing such games online , playing those games from Zynga  …..have u ever growen a plant at home ? taken turns to water it ? felt happy when  it gives you a lovely flower ??? I cant stand people who are so grown and  play those games to bond with NEW friends to help them grow their farms or watever  ]  One advice , Please GROW UP !
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• Updating every second status of yours…..man , who cares wat is happening in your life …. I k nw , once is good ,2 times is good , thid time , are u nuts ????  others don’t read your stuff alone , don’t make them forcefully block you frm their view :P if u r an ardent FB person , u will knw how to block the person away  :) 
• The , "Like" factor -- I knw u like this and that and eveything in this world , but  does it mean u keep likign on every stupid thing available in FB ???? Tell me one thing , when you are with your so called liked thing , do u really enjoy the moment ? NO , u wud b thinkin , man I didn’t like this in FB :P shit feeling ya
• The other thing is " I have 100 " friends :) , ok am happy u have 100 ….but do u really make time for all the 100 ? are u really worth for the 100 ??? NO , then why feel happy for the number of friends ….makes sense rite……
• Adding celebrities in your account…….i knw this is good to keep you updated on those FAV celebs of your's but hey , u watch TV , read news paper , u dorite ???? or if u r makin time for ur celebs on FB , then I think you are just another nut who is helping FB :) and not  improving your knowledge by reading papers……

One more last thing I can say , this online so called can be called as your online friend , you r moving away from your friends and family , and don’t say "No time " ……when you make time for FB , make time for the one who is waiting for you man …..Be sensible and make use of this social networking in a nicer way ……

Make time for friends who are with you in FB and meet them , just addign them does not mean you are a friend , u are just a virtual soul  hanging around in the air …..

Hope I conveyed my best our of FB craze :) and this will actually make people realise how it kills time  :)

Be sensible enough to use FB …..

Voices in the head !

• When are we meeting man ? u always say this to me .....dont get me on my nerves...... i just hate u ......
• wat did u have for breakfast ? and her better pay the bills huh .....
• why are u such a nut ? are u always like this ?
• baby , can we meet in CCD ? i really miss you [ with a fake smile ] 
• why is this manager like this man ? i really wanna punch him .........
• ticket , ticket , where do u wanna go [ with tht weird voice ] 
• Dont u have change ???? i cant carry for u lady .......why dont y get them urself 
• Dilkhush Dilkhush [some kannada song , i claim not to knw the lyrics but i do hum when am doin sme work :P  ] 

Well ,if u see all this ...u wud be wondering wat is wrong with me !!!
And the problem is if u can understand multiple languages , it is more of a weird feeling to knw more on the personal space , i dotn listen to all these crap , but hey , iam human and ui can hear too , i cant shut down the whole world , my mind is more like a pendulum and it keeps swinging to the difft stuff i hear .....

Right ???? Wrong , these are the voices in head when you are sitting in the bus [ specially the volvos ] and these are the stupid talks  u hear when you are travellin for just 5 minutes :) 

More to add ....Pls wait for them !

Bizzarre ringtones !

The crazy loud noise from every man's pocket and a ladies handbag at every nook and corner of the world , be it a bus , 2 wheeler , cars , even bathrooms are not spared man ......the weird ringtone of thier causes so much of noise and disturbance really blocking others mind .....wonder how ppl can  get so dumb on not choosing the right song.....
i knw it is ur fav song , can u play it a bit low ????  well , this is once crazy thing which can never be changed from every educated or uneducated person around the world ......